Okay. So you hate Valentine’s Day. I get it. Maybe it reminds you of what you don’t have. It reminds you of what you want. And you know…it highlights the missing.
But you know what? That’s a good thing. That’s useful information.
That tug, that zap, that emotional twang that shows up is indication, something in your life is out of alignment.
It’s an oppotunity to get it in alignment.
No, you don’t control who shows up in your life and when. But you do control what your energy feels like…what it’s like to BE you.
Which, in turn, puts you in sync with other people who are at a similar place, energetically.
Happy, high energy people with lots of contentment and loving energy in their lives (expressed in a myriad of ways, not all of them necessitating a Victoria’s Secret credit line), these are the people who are attracted to others like them. And in the meantime, you are naturally going to lead a better life. When you keep your thoughts healthy, clear, when you take good care of your body, when you feed your mind a stream of uplifting and inspirational energy, it keeps you in good touch with your spirit. It makes you shine. Your light comes out and guess what: it attracts! That light not only attracts, but it attracts what’s at the same level as you. You get back exactly what you are putting out.
Don’t you see, it’s a win-win opportunity? People makes shifts. You make shifts. As your energy shifts, the people that come and go in your life with line up with where your energy is. It all syncs up.
You want more, better quality relationships in your life? Then develop a more engaging relationship with yourself.
By not being with the wrong person, you open the door for someone who is a good fit.
Every time you feel disjointedness with something in your life, consider it gift. It’s a neon sign, lighting up what needs to be tweaked. It’s a big, red blinking arrow, saying, “Look here!”
On the other hand, if you just hate all the chocolate and sap factor, there ain’t much I can do.
You a VD hater?